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"When the lockdown started... my husband and I decided to quarantine... at our house on Marthas Vineyard.... A week later... my husband told me he wanted a divorce." - Hallo friend WELCOME TO AMERICA, In the article you read this time with the title "When the lockdown started... my husband and I decided to quarantine... at our house on Marthas Vineyard.... A week later... my husband told me he wanted a divorce.", we have prepared well for this article you read and download the information therein. hopefully fill posts Article AMERICA, Article CULTURAL, Article ECONOMIC, Article POLITICAL, Article SECURITY, Article SOCCER, Article SOCIAL, we write this you can understand. Well, happy reading.

Title : "When the lockdown started... my husband and I decided to quarantine... at our house on Marthas Vineyard.... A week later... my husband told me he wanted a divorce."
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"When the lockdown started... my husband and I decided to quarantine... at our house on Marthas Vineyard.... A week later... my husband told me he wanted a divorce."

"He packed a bag, got in his Jeep and boarded a ferry. We had been married for nearly 21 years. When he reached New York City, he laid out his narrative: He thought he had wanted our life but didn’t. He thought he was happy but wasn’t. A switch had flipped. He didn’t want our house or our apartment. He didn’t want any custody of our children."

I'm reading "Was I Married to a Stranger? I thought I knew my husband of 20 years. I didn’t — and still don’t" by Belle Burden (NYT). 

For a less poetically written version of this story, read The Mirror: "Wealthy mum says husband 'left for another woman in lockdown and didn't want custody of kids'/Flobelle 'Belle' Fairbanks Burden, 54, from New York, US, said Henry Davis wanted to end their marriage during Covid lockdown at their Martha's Vineyard home in spring 2020." Here, unlike at the Times, the ex-husband is named and we see photos of the couple, plus news that Belle is a descendant of Cornelius Vanderbilt. 

Here's a long Wikipedia article about her mother, Amanda Burden. 

Anyway, back to "Was I Married to a Stranger?" To me the most interesting part is that Belle Burden chose to embrace the continuing strangerhood of the husband who drove off one morning:

His strangeness only increased, becoming an adversary in the divorce process... As the pandemic dragged on, there was so little social interaction and information flow that I heard nothing about him from anyone. I don’t know if the other woman is still important to him or if she didn’t matter at all. I don’t know if he cheated throughout our marriage or if the affair was his first betrayal. I don’t know if he changed abruptly or if I was sleeping with a stranger for two decades. I could have hired a private investigator, could have called the husband of the woman he was seeing, could have pursued my in-laws for answers. 

But all these roads felt sordid, like I was trading my dignity for scraps of information. I had to figure out how to move forward without knowing....

You know what's not sordid and undignified? Publishing a NYT "Modern Love" column, written in lofty language, inviting the whole world to join you in your elegant state of unknowing and making that man a stranger to us all. 

"He packed a bag, got in his Jeep and boarded a ferry. We had been married for nearly 21 years. When he reached New York City, he laid out his narrative: He thought he had wanted our life but didn’t. He thought he was happy but wasn’t. A switch had flipped. He didn’t want our house or our apartment. He didn’t want any custody of our children."

I'm reading "Was I Married to a Stranger? I thought I knew my husband of 20 years. I didn’t — and still don’t" by Belle Burden (NYT). 

For a less poetically written version of this story, read The Mirror: "Wealthy mum says husband 'left for another woman in lockdown and didn't want custody of kids'/Flobelle 'Belle' Fairbanks Burden, 54, from New York, US, said Henry Davis wanted to end their marriage during Covid lockdown at their Martha's Vineyard home in spring 2020." Here, unlike at the Times, the ex-husband is named and we see photos of the couple, plus news that Belle is a descendant of Cornelius Vanderbilt. 

Here's a long

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Wikipedia article about her mother, Amanda Burden. 

Anyway, back to "Was I Married to a Stranger?" To me the most interesting part is that Belle Burden chose to embrace the continuing strangerhood of the husband who drove off one morning:

His strangeness only increased, becoming an adversary in the divorce process... As the pandemic dragged on, there was so little social interaction and information flow that I heard nothing about him from anyone. I don’t know if the other woman is still important to him or if she didn’t matter at all. I don’t know if he cheated throughout our marriage or if the affair was his first betrayal. I don’t know if he changed abruptly or if I was sleeping with a stranger for two decades. I could have hired a private investigator, could have called the husband of the woman he was seeing, could have pursued my in-laws for answers. 

But all these roads felt sordid, like I was trading my dignity for scraps of information. I had to figure out how to move forward without knowing....

You know what's not sordid and undignified? Publishing a NYT "Modern Love" column, written in lofty language, inviting the whole world to join you in your elegant state of unknowing and making that man a stranger to us all. 

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